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January 26, 2013

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Danny

The ideal world you will find someone to fall asleep with, who cares for you and be intimate with you. But that's not the world people live in if you have something 'wrong' with you (disability, disease, social, etc.)

I'm the guy that posted: http://virginityproject.typepad.com/the_virginity_project/2007/05/when_guys_talk.html

I'd recommend you go to a prostitute/escort. They ARE with you for money but with the good ones it doesn't feel like that. Despite what people will say you DO develop relationships with escorts. They are human beings not machines. It's unlikely to be a romantic relationship but a friendship can ensue and although there is payment there the existence of the friendship with a regular and sex makes things more real.

It's not like having a girl friend of course, it's all on payment and short sessions but I still look forward to mine. Without that weekly session of intimacy I'd be as depressed as I was at university where I sobbed for hours in my room. I also ended up in a relationship with a prostitute I saw.

The only trouble is finding ones where it feels 'real'. So you may have a few sessions and think it's crap, my first 4 experiences were like that. But on my 5th I found a great regular who I saw for 18 months before she retired.

Practical advice: look on forums, ask questions on who to see explaining your situation and also contact the lady in advance explaining the skin condition.

The Virginity Project


Dear Girl in London

Thank you for taking the time to write this lovely, thoughtful - and very true - comment.

Kate

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